Emma's Enlightenments This Week’s Advice: Feel It.  As a kid, I was always taught to be tough.   I was shown that emotions are weaknesses and only lead to more of a mess.  As I grew up, my mindset on this obviously had to change.  To be successful, you need to feel your emotions.  If not, they are bottled up, shaken some more and explode.   Not feeling your emotions is worse than feeling them too much.  Likewise, it’s better to feel them as they come, rather than to feel them

Emma's Enlightentments This Week’s Advice:  Content with Aloneness    Something I have been struggling with is being able to be alone.   Because of this, I have led myself to the wrong arms and to the wrong people.  A lot.   I wanted someone to be there, so I ran to the nearest person around me.  I needed someone to just put an arm around me and tell me everything was going to be okay. I needed interaction and reassurance, even if it was from the wrong people.  This led to mo

Emma's Enlightenments This Week’s Advice:   Know What You Can Handle.   Only you know what you can handle.   Something I have...

Emma's Enlightenments This Week’s Advice:   Spread Positivity.   We all have bad days. We all have bad weeks. This is normal, but...

Emma's Enlightenments This Week’s Advice:   Upholding Your Standards.   I have talked a lot about keeping yourself, yourself.   I talk...

"Your self worth is something you should never trade or give away" This Week’s Advice:   Knowing Your Self Worth.   Everything has...